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The Fastest Path to Loving Yourself More
By Arielle Ford
Unless you are in a dark place of self-loathing (in which case please find a professional counselor to help you work through it), I know that the fastest way to love yourself more is to be in a healthy, happy, love relationship.
I have come across so many people who tell me that they are “working” on loving themselves, and once they do THEN, they will begin dating.”
I believe you can do both at the same time.
The good news is that working on yourself is a great thing and you can find strategies to be more loving and kind and accepting of yourself and you need to know that the critical voice in your head can be lessened but folks, honestly, you’re never going to eliminate it entirely.
All of us mere mortals have a voice that doubts us from time to time. And it’s normal. Even super famous celebrities do.
Oprah once said that at the end of EVERY interview she has done, whether it was Beyonce or Obama, all asked her the same, “Was that ok?”
Please stop waiting for love.
When you find your beloved, and you see how much love they have for you shining forth from their eyes, there is nothing more healing than that.
As Harville Hendrix teachers, the purpose of soulmate love is for the deepest healing of your core wounds.
And, if you need support in manifesting the love of your life, please listen to my free 90-minute webinar (with Feminine Power creator Claire Zammit) at www.soulmatepassion44.com
Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,
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Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction.
The Soulmate Secret has led thousands of men and women, around the world, to attract their ideal life parter. Arielle lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband, Brian Hilliard. Please find her at www.facebook.com/soulmatesecret and www.soulmatesecret.com